[-<%= link_to "我是帅哥",:controller => 'user_cfg', :action => 'user_cfg_modify_sex',:sex=>1,:sid=>my_sid,:cn=>my_cn %>-]<br/>
[-<%= link_to "我是美女",:controller => 'user_cfg', :action => 'user_cfg_modify_sex',:sex=>0,:sid=>my_sid,:cn=>my_cn %>-]